Thursday, 14 January 2010

Paschal Hemelge

From Nimal Hemelge:

It is my sad duty to inform you that my father passed away on Saturday morning. Lourdes was his life long passion, and travelled with the CA for many years during the 80's and 90's. He instilled in me a love for Lourdes. He had returned from Hospital the night before, and the nuns in the nursing home, where he has spent the last 7 years looked after him, and got him ready for bed. During the night, he woke up, prayed with the Sister Superior and passed away. Thankfully he wasn't in any pain, and was completely unaware he was leaving us.

Now he is reunited with Hazel and joins the chorus of saints in heaven. I would be grateful if you could remember him in your prayers, and pass this news onto those that knew him.
May he Rest in Peace.

Saturday, 19 December 2009

Christmas Carol Singing 2009


Thank you to everyone who came along to the Carol Singing in London to raise money for the Glanfield Children's Group on 19 December 2009. The event was organised by Matthew Sharrock and raised lots of money for the group. Well done to everyone involved.

Sunday, 6 December 2009

Archbishop of Southwark

The Archbishop of Southwark has resigned with "great sadness" due to ill health.

Archbishop Kevin McDonald, 62, has had a triple heart bypass.

He also suffers from severe osteoarthritis which has already necessitated surgery and he may need more next year.

Archbishop McDonald, who was installed in Southwark six years ago, said: "I feel great sadness at having to relinquish my post as Archbishop of Southwark."

He added: "Although I have had to contend with illness over the last three years, this appointment has been a great grace.

"It has been a privilege to lead this great diocese and I have received a wonderful response to everything I have tried to do.

"I have also been very appreciative of the prayers of so many people while I have been ill.

"The diocese will continue to be very much in my thoughts and prayers in the time ahead."

Archbishop McDonald, who became a priest in 1974, was born in Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire.

A spokesman for the Catholic Church in England and Wales said Pope Benedict XVI had accepted Archbishop McDonald's resignation on Friday.

Tuesday, 24 November 2009

Congratulations to...

Hannah and Keiron (Zippy) O’Brien on the recent birth of their daughter, Lily.

Saturday, 24 October 2009

Congratulations to...

...Nimal Hemelge and Tracey McEvoy on their recent wedding at Corpus Christi Church, Wokingham. The couple were surrounded by many family and friends. The Mass was celebrated by Fr Tony Lester, O.Carm.

Tuesday, 20 October 2009

Congratulations to...

..Emily and James Baker on the birth of their daughter, Isabelle. Isabelle was born on 18 October 2009.
Please keep this new family in your prayers.

Wednesday, 29 July 2009

Congratulations to...

....Matt Betts and Terri Parry who married on 24 July 2009 at Corpus Christi Church, Bournemouth amongst lots of family and friends. The Mass was celebrated by Fr Nicholas King, SJ and Fr Tony Lester, O.Carm. It was concelebrated by Fr John Warrington, Mgr Bill Saunders, Fr Hilary Thomas, SJ, Fr Simon Blakesley, Fr Michael Flannery, SJ and others.

Monday, 15 June 2009

CA Ball 2009

Thank you to everyone who attended the CA Ball 2009 to help us raise funds for Glanfield and the CA Hospitalite. It was a wonderful night and everyone had a great time.

Photo (c) Dail Maudsley

Sunday, 26 April 2009

Walsingham Retreat - 2009

Processing to the Slipper Chapel with the statue of Our Lady of Walsingham
Every two years the CA Hospitalité holds a retreat at Walsingham - organised with Jim Walton.

The latest retreat took place on 24 - 26 April 2009, led by Fr Simon Blakesley.

It was a beautiful sunny weekend and full of great friends – all of which made it all the more special. On Friday and Saturday, Simon discussed many of the teachings of the Church, and taught us a number of new things. Our main theme of discussion was the life of Our Lady, and how she is written about in the New Testament; we followed her life from when she first discovered she was pregnant, right up to Jesus’s death. Simon then helped us to understand
the place Our Lady has in the Catholic Church. On Sunday, we processed down to the Slipper Chapel on a glorious sunny day, led by Simon.

Thank you to Fr Simon and to Jim Walton for organising another wonderful retreat.

A message from Colette Sharrock, President:

In 1988 the first CA Hospitalité weekend retreat was held in Walsingham, instigated by David Lewis and others. Jim Walton was working at Elham House at that time and became involved in the organisation. In 1991 Jim himself then took on the co-ordination of a further CA retreat and subsequently has been organising these bi-annually ever since, with, I may, say great expertise.

At the end of this years retreat, Jim approached me to say he felt it was time to move on and hand over the reins to someone else. He will be a difficult act to follow, but if there is anyone out there who feels they might like to take on this job, please let a member of the Council know. Jim has promised to give his full help and support. Hopefully the next retreat will be in 2011, so plenty of time to prepare!

Meantime, Jim, on behalf of the Hospitalité, may I offer our heartfelt thanks for all the hard work over the past 20 years; those of us who have been lucky enough to attend these retreats, have enjoyed them immensely.

Tuesday, 3 March 2009

Francis Brassington

The CA Hospitalite has just heard the very sad news that Francis Brassington passed away on 1 March.

Francis Brasington travelled with the CA for 25+ as an assisted pilgrim and was a well known figure in the Accueil. He was also a dedicated prayer member.

Lourdes was the main focus of his life and as soon as he returned he spoke of booking for next year.

He will be sadly missed by all the Hospitalite and Pilgrimage.

May he Rest in Peace.

Sunday, 22 February 2009

Congratulations to...

to Nimal Hemelge and Tracey McEvoy on the birth of their son, Raphael Ephram Hemelge born 4 February 2009.

Thursday, 29 January 2009

Congratulations to...

to Danielle and Martin Toyer on the birth of their son, Laurence Stewart Toyer born 25 January 2009.

Wednesday, 8 October 2008

Changes in the Pilgrimage

The CA Trustees and Hospitalité Council would like to thank the outgoing Heads of Service - Sadie Vile, Frances Presgraves and Trevor Fernandes who have all done sterling work over the years. Thank you for your service.

We would also like to welcome Anna Jackson, Sue Woodford and Adam Farmer who will be taking on these roles and wish them well in the next few years.

Our Hospitalité Secretary, Matt Betts is also standing down after five years in the role, and we would like to thank him for his work. Nimal Hemelge will succeed him as Secretary from the AGM 2009.

Tuesday, 9 September 2008

Cycle ride to Lourdes 2008

From Patrick Noble and Dail Maudsley: Well, we made it!! We just wanted to let you all know that the trip was a great success, Patrick made it to Lourdes as planned and at the moment we are on our way to raising even more than our original target! We are raising for the Glanfield Children's Group. To see the current total, click here.

That’s obviously brilliant news! So we wanted to let you know just how it went and Patrick and I have prepared a little document to outline the trials and tribulations along the way and a few photos.

Click here to view.

Sunday, 7 September 2008

Congratulations to...

Lisa and Fabio Galantini who had a baby boy, Daniel, last month.

Friday, 8 August 2008

Benemerenti Congratulations

Special congratulations to Ann and Michael Whitehead who have both received the Benemerenti in acknowledgement of their years of service to the Association of British Members of the Hospitalité and Lourdes. For many years, Ann was the CA's Chief Handmaid.

Monday, 5 May 2008

Stonyhurst College Rose Gardens

The Stonyhurst College Pilgrimage have celebrated the 2008 anniversary in a unique way by building a commemorative rose garden at the front of the school. The four hundred year old school has a long history of dedication to Our Lady and the garden is a great addition to the grounds.


Friday, 2 May 2008

Ann Garner


by Chris Buller

It is with great sadness that I have to tell you that Ann Garner passed away on 1 May in Bedford South Wing hospital after developing oesophageal cancer having been in hospital for a few weeks. Ann was adopted as a young child and, when her adoptive parents passed away, was left with no family. But through Lourdes she became a part of the Buller family and came to both my sister and my weddings.

I first met Ann on the train in Boulogne when I was on night duty and saw a frightened and nervous lady and quickly got the old regulars to talk to her and allay her fears about what lay ahead. As so often is the case for the first day or two in Lourdes she claimed to dislike the place and wanted to go home, out of fear of the unknown I suspect, but by the end of week she had been converted into Lourdes addict and was already planning her return for the next year. She came for many years until her numerous afflictions started to get the better of her, culminating in contracting MRSA and C-Diff on her regular visits to her hospital.

Ann lived on the 8th floor of a residential tower block in Bedford and whilst it may sound an unsuitable location it was next to the main bus station and so it was easy for her wide circle of friends to reach her. Ann was a regular on the Community Service Unit (otherwise affectionately known by the schoolchildren as ‘granny bashing’ for those children who did not join the CCF or do the Duke of Edinburgh awards). She made a great many friends through the local school initiative and was very influential with many of the children and I know she helped counsel a number of children away from a drugs problem, and made friends for life with those children, but also with their parents, a number of whom attended her funeral.

Those of you who remember Ann will recall that she was a very poor sleeper in Lourdes and that she, along with her fellow Bedford pilgrims Gina and Stephanie, would be found on the roof of the Accueil smoking and chatting away, all night if they could get away with it! All three of them proved to be popular company for the night staff teams who enjoyed having a puff during the night.

In the last few years in Lourdes, Ann became a prayer member of the Hospitalité and I know she was overjoyed to be asked and always attended the Hospitalité service when in Lourdes. I will miss calling her ‘ratbag’ (a nickname only the male ward members were allowed to use), her generous and caring nature, her great sense of humour and her ability to cope with all the pranks and jokes that the ward team used to play on her.

May she Rest in Peace. (2008)

Thursday, 8 November 2007

British Province of Carmelites to join the CA Pilgrimage

The trustees of the Catholic Association have accepted the request of the British Province of Carmelites to join the CA Pilgrimage to Lourdes.

The Carmelite Order is one of the Church ’ s ancient religious communities, founded in the Holy Land some 800 years ago. Today the Carmelite Family is made up of friars, nuns, sisters, hermits and lay people, who form praying communities at the service of all God’s people.

Carmelites have a particular devotion to Mary the Mother of God, and the final apparition of Our Lady to Saint Bernadette took place on the feast of Our Lady of Mount Carmel.

Although individual Carmelites have taken part in the Catholic Association Pilgrimage over a number of years, the British Province of Carmelites will formally come under the umbrella of the Catholic Association for its Pilgrimage during the Jubilee Year 2008, marking the 150th anniversary of the apparitions at the Grotto.

The Pilgrimage Director for the Carmelites will be Johan Bergström-Allen, a lay member of the Order and former councillor of the Lourdes Hospitalité and the CA Hospitalité.

The Carmelites will come to Lourdes under the leadership of the Prior Provincial. The current Prior Provincial, Fr Tony Lester, said “Having been a brancardier with the Catholic Association Pilgrimage for the last few years, I’m delighted that my fellow Carmelites will be able to come to Our Lady’s sanctuary in Lourdes with such a fine group of pilgrims. Collaborating with the CA will mean that we can accompany more assisted pilgrims, and we shall work hard to recruit more volunteer helpers, particularly nurses and young people.”

Thursday, 1 November 2007

Congratulations to...

the following CA members who have recently married:
Emily McEwen and James Baker
Paul Dowson and Anne O’Reilly

Friday, 1 June 2007

Walsingham Retreat - 2007

Maggie Clark leads the procession to the Slipper Chapel

Fr Tony Lester, O.Carm led the weekend on 27 - 29 April, 2007 - which at times was moving and at other times controversial, but always sincere and very thought provoking. It was good to feel safe in what we thought and ask the questions we often keep hidden.

Fr Tony’s visit to Germany was obviously still fresh in his mind as he told us some interesting stories and left us with good quotations, which he developed in a lovely way. He has a wonderful ability to make people feel good about themselves and totally loved by God.

Fr Tony’s quotation from St Hildergard will stay with us for a long time: “Listen to your desire for life it is the word of the Holy Spirit”: this lead to some interesting discussions all weekend.

Thank you to Jim Walton for organising another excellent retreat, and to Fr Tony Lester for leading it.
Helen Caroll at the Retreat

Wednesday, 9 May 2007

Congratulations to...

John Holden on getting his Masters at the very young age of 83! John (centre) is pictured with Bert and Kathleen King. See some more photos of this special day.

Monday, 30 April 2007

Congratulations to...

Becky Warren-Heys, who gave birth to a baby girl, Emily, born 10.10 am on 30th April, weighing 7lb 5oz.

Sarah Sparrow, who gave birth to Francis, born on 6th March, weighing 9lb 11oz.

Helen Dinneen (neé Brumby), who gave birth to Conor, born on 27th March, weighing 9lb 12 oz.

James & Rachel Brotherton who have a new son, Joseph Thomas, born on 22nd April; a brother for Harry.

Saturday, 30 December 2006

Philomena Mulroy

The CA Hospitalité is extremely sad to announce the death of Philomena Mulroy, a long standing member of the CA Pilgrimage, who passed away in December 2006. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.

Read Philomena's Obituary.

Saturday, 15 April 2006

The Right Reverend Charles Henderson

The Bishop Emeritus of Southwark, Bishop Charles Joseph Henderson, died 0n 10th April, at Park House, Blackheath, after a long illness. He was 81. Bishop Henderson's funeral took place at St George's Cathedral, Southwark on Tuesday 25 April at 12noon.

Bishop Charles Henderson will be remembered as a dedicated and tireless pastor and also as someone who led the way in putting into practice the Second Vatican Council's documents on Christian unity and inter-faith dialogue.

He was born in Waterford, Ireland, on 14 April 1924. The third of five children and the only boy, he grew up in the Ballybricken district of the city. At the age of five he went to Mount Sion School, run by the Christian Brothers. He entered St John's Seminary in 1941 and was ordained in Holy Trinity Cathedral, Waterford, by Bishop Daniel Cohalan on 6 June 1948.

His first appointment was as a curate at St Stephen's, Welling. In 1955 he moved to English Martyrs, Streatham. He become chancellor of the diocese in 1958. When the new Diocese of Arundel and Brighton was created out of Southwark in 1965, Monsignor Charles was appointed vicar general of the it for a short time. He was made a papal chamberlain in 1960 and a prelate to the papal household in 1965.

In 1968 he became episcopal vicar for religious and, the following year, was appointed parish priest of Our Lady Help of Christians, Blackheath. On 8 December 1972 at St George's Cathedral, Southwark, Archbishop Cyril Cowderoy ordained him as auxiliary bishop in Southwark and titular Bishop of Tricala. After the death of Archbishop Cowderoy in October 1976, he was put in charge of the diocese until the installation of Archbishop Michael Bowen in April 1977. Following the episcopal ordinations in 1980 of Bishop Howard Tripp and Bishop John Jukes, he was given responsibility for the south-east London. In 1976 Bishop Charles was appointed to the Ecumenical Commission for England and Wales.

For any progress to be made in Christians of different traditions drawing closer together, Bishop Charles believed that friendship had first to be built. Sometimes at the Commission meetings he would read aloud some of the poetry he had written. Afterwards, everyone would file into the dining room, where cold meats, salad, cheese and fruit would be laid out on the table. He was a member of the English Anglican/RC Committee from 1982-92 and a member of the Methodist/RC Committee from 1983-92. Between 1982-86 he served as a Catholic consultor and observer at the British Council of Churches. In 1998, he remarked: "We have achieved in my lifetime as a bishop the undoing of the damage of the Reformation."

When Bishop Charles established the Bishops' Conference Committee for Other Faiths in 1984, most Catholics knew little about the origins, history and beliefs of other world religions. He made up for his own lack of knowledge by showing an openness to all that was good in these faiths and eagerness to listen and learn. To increase understanding and to encourage dialogue, the Committee began to produce a series of booklets, Getting to Know People of Other Faiths and Family Life. In 1986, Bishop Charles took part in the first London Inter-faith Pilgrimage, which ended at the peace pagoda in Battersea Park.

Pope John Paul II recognised his expertise and knowledge in inter-faith dialogue by appointing him to the Pontifical Council for Inter-Religious Dialogue in 1990. As well as this, he was also chairman of the Bishops' Committee for Catholic-Jewish Relations from 1992-2001, vice-chairman of the Council for Christians and Jews for many years, and a member of the Churches Commission for Inter Faith Relations from 1994-2002. His outstanding work over seventeen years in developing understanding and good relations between the Jewish and Catholic communities earned him, in 2001, the Interfaith Gold Medallion from the Sternberg Charitable Foundation.

On January 26 2001, Pope John Paul II accepted his resignation. But it was only a resignation on paper. His diary remained full. Much of his time was spent travelling around south-east London celebrating confirmation.

His ecumenical and inter-faith work made a huge contribution to the life of the Church. But, of course, his primary responsibility was to the people and priests of the archdiocese. Visiting schools was one of his priorities, and he held regular meetings for head teachers to discuss various issues. He was also chair of the finance advisory committee of the National Catholic Fund from 1988-2000. One time when someone told him about a priest experiencing difficulties in his life, he replied: "Pray for him and be kind to him. Some of these men are very brittle." As a young priest, he had taken the pledge and remained faithful to the Pioneer Total Abstinence Association. He supported movements, such as Focolare, the Neocatechumenate, and Charismatic Renewal, believing that they should be integrated into the archdiocese.

In September 2005 he took part in one of the largest events in the archdiocese for many years when an estimated 7,000 Catholics attended a Mass at Aylesford Priory to mark the Year of the Eucharist.Bishop Charles never failed to return to Ireland twice every year. In 1973 he was made a Freeman of the City of Waterford. That same year, he was made a Knight Commander with Star of the Equestrian Order of the Holy Sepulchre of Jerusalem. He also travelled to Thailand several times to visit the Pattaya Orphanage Trust, of which he was patron.His patience and ability to listen enabled him to help resolve differences between individuals or in organisations or parishes. He never forgot to send a thank you note after an event. In his office in Blackheath, all the urgent items would be laid out across the floor. He paid attention to detail and liked to see things done properly. Each day, was built around Mass, the Divine Office and the rosary.

In January, Bishop Charles was diagnosed with cancer and eventually transferred to St Thomas' Hospital. Despite his worsening condition, a friend drove him the short distance to St George's Cathedral on February 14 to attend the episcopal ordination of Bishop Patrick Lynch and Bishop Paul Hendricks. The hospital had brought forward his radiotherapy treatment to enable him to be present.

Wednesday, 15 February 2006

Hilda Matthews

by Matt Betts

Sadly, last week, Hilda Matthews passed away peacefully. Hilda, who first visited Lourdes with the Catholic Association in 1996, will be remembered by many as a bright member of the Accueil.

I first came to Lourdes in 1997 and my first job as a brancardier was to be an Accueil roller. I was a very nervous branc when I arrived for duty, and I found myself looking for someone to push, as everyone seemed to have already left! Suddenly, from behind, a lady tapped me on the shoulder with her stick, and asked whether I was free to take her to mass. It was Hilda. Now I was petrified, because I was about to do my first rolling! However, all of this fear disappeared immediately, when Hilda simply said something along the lines of: don't worry everything will be fine. And, everything was - until the return!

Hilda needed to get a number of presents for her many grandchildren and asked me to take her shopping, which I did. Unfortunately, on our return from town, I inadvertently took the wrong turning (to this day I still don't know where!), and ended up on some road with a few cars coming past quite fast. In sudden panic to move Hilda away, I swiftly turned the voiture left into the pavement, and thus the drain!! A little crash, and Hilda was shaken about a bit, but safe! She insisted we went for a cuppa, so I could calm down and made me laugh the whole time!! For the rest of the week Hilda insisted on me taking her to every event, and over the next nine years we became firm friends. I have mentioned our first meeting, because it always reminds me of how wonderfully kind Hilda was to all who knew and visited her. I have also mentioned it, because she liked to tell the same story (with some expansion!), to all who visited her and claimed "it was only last year". She always made me smile. In particular, Hilda decided that only two careers befitted her young male helpers, that of priest or doctor. Thus, each year she would joke with me and others that she was waiting for us to make our choice and wanted to know why we hadn't done so yet?! Hilda was always full of good advice, and in 2005, advised me that I had put on too much weight and from now on should pull two voitures a day to get myself sorted! Thanks Hilda!

Hilda was an absolutely remarkable and wonderful person, who in her lifetime adopted 10s of children, and brought up 8 of her own. She "adopted" a few brancs and handmaids too! She was a very prayerful lady, and prayed every day to Padre Pio and Our Lady of Lourdes. She particularly prayed for those who had lost their faith and for their return to Jesus. In light of all of this, she became a Prayer Member of the Hospitalité in 2004.

Many of us will have our own story about Hilda, because she lit up any room she was in. Thank you Hilda for being my friend, and a friend to everyone who visited and cared for you in Lourdes - you will be sorely missed by all of us.

May she Rest in Peace.

Monday, 31 October 2005

Michael and Caroline Fauvelle

Please pray for Michael and Caroline Fauvelle who have both passed away recently.

Caroline died in September 2004 after a short illness; Michael died in October 2005 following a series of strokes. Both are buried in their village church in Wherwell, Hampshire, where they had lived all their married life.

Read their Obituary by Rupert Bell.

Monday, 29 August 2005

Congratulations to...

...Helen Carroll who received a Benemerenti in Lourdes this year. There was an audible gasp in the packed Hospitalité Service this year, in the Chapelle St Pierre (Acceuil Notre Dame), when Bishop Crispian Hollis announced a Papal Award for Helen Carroll, and a great burst of applause when he gave her the medal and scroll, Benemerenti.

The Bishop, our Patron, referred to her impressive service in and concerning Lourdes: 50 years a handmaid with the CA, 20 of which as Deputy Chief Handmaid; a spell on the Executive Committee and then a Trustee of the CA; about the same time with Leeds Pilgrimage as with us, including 30 years as their Chief Handmaid; a devoted member of the St Frai branch of the Hospitalité NDL (for over 40 years) and a councillor there for 10 years.

A story of consistent service to the sick. Well done, Helen.
(David Lewis)


Helen Carroll wrote:
I would like to say a very big “Thank You” for all the kind letters, cards, phone calls, I received following my presentation of the Benemerenti in Lourdes. These are truly appreciated and I keep everyone in my prayers.

Wednesday, 1 June 2005

Congratulations to...

Sue Balfour who received an MBE in June, for her services to the Red Cross.

Tuesday, 26 April 2005