Saturday, 19 December 2009
Sunday, 6 December 2009
Archbishop of Southwark
Archbishop Kevin McDonald, 62, has had a triple heart bypass.
He also suffers from severe osteoarthritis which has already necessitated surgery and he may need more next year.
Archbishop McDonald, who was installed in Southwark six years ago, said: "I feel great sadness at having to relinquish my post as Archbishop of Southwark."
He added: "Although I have had to contend with illness over the last three years, this appointment has been a great grace.
"It has been a privilege to lead this great diocese and I have received a wonderful response to everything I have tried to do.
"I have also been very appreciative of the prayers of so many people while I have been ill.
"The diocese will continue to be very much in my thoughts and prayers in the time ahead."
Archbishop McDonald, who became a priest in 1974, was born in Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire.
A spokesman for the Catholic Church in England and Wales said Pope Benedict XVI had accepted Archbishop McDonald's resignation on Friday.
Tuesday, 24 November 2009
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Saturday, 24 October 2009
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Tuesday, 20 October 2009
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Wednesday, 29 July 2009
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Monday, 15 June 2009
CA Ball 2009

Sunday, 26 April 2009
Walsingham Retreat - 2009

It was a beautiful sunny weekend and full of great friends – all of which made it all the more special. On Friday and Saturday, Simon discussed many of the teachings of the Church, and taught us a number of new things. Our main theme of discussion was the life of Our Lady, and how she is written about in the New Testament; we followed her life from when she first discovered she was pregnant, right up to Jesus’s death. Simon then helped us to understand
the place Our Lady has in the Catholic Church. On Sunday, we processed down to the Slipper Chapel on a glorious sunny day, led by Simon.
A message from Colette Sharrock, President:
In 1988 the first CA Hospitalité weekend retreat was held in Walsingham, instigated by David Lewis and others. Jim Walton was working at Elham House at that time and became involved in the organisation. In 1991 Jim himself then took on the co-ordination of a further CA retreat and subsequently has been organising these bi-annually ever since, with, I may, say great expertise.
Meantime, Jim, on behalf of the Hospitalité, may I offer our heartfelt thanks for all the hard work over the past 20 years; those of us who have been lucky enough to attend these retreats, have enjoyed them immensely.
Tuesday, 3 March 2009
Francis Brassington

Francis Brasington travelled with the CA for 25+ as an assisted pilgrim and was a well known figure in the Accueil. He was also a dedicated prayer member.
Lourdes was the main focus of his life and as soon as he returned he spoke of booking for next year.
He will be sadly missed by all the Hospitalite and Pilgrimage.
May he Rest in Peace.
Sunday, 22 February 2009
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Thursday, 29 January 2009
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Wednesday, 8 October 2008
Changes in the Pilgrimage
We would also like to welcome Anna Jackson, Sue Woodford and Adam Farmer who will be taking on these roles and wish them well in the next few years.
Our Hospitalité Secretary, Matt Betts is also standing down after five years in the role, and we would like to thank him for his work. Nimal Hemelge will succeed him as Secretary from the AGM 2009.
Tuesday, 9 September 2008
Cycle ride to Lourdes 2008

That’s obviously brilliant news! So we wanted to let you know just how it went and Patrick and I have prepared a little document to outline the trials and tribulations along the way and a few photos.
Sunday, 7 September 2008
Friday, 8 August 2008
Benemerenti Congratulations
Monday, 5 May 2008
Stonyhurst College Rose Gardens
Friday, 2 May 2008
Ann Garner
I first met Ann on the train in Boulogne when I was on night duty and saw a frightened and nervous lady and quickly got the old regulars to talk to her and allay her fears about what lay ahead. As so often is the case for the first day or two in Lourdes she claimed to dislike the place and wanted to go home, out of fear of the unknown I suspect, but by the end of week she had been converted into Lourdes addict and was already planning her return for the next year. She came for many years until her numerous afflictions started to get the better of her, culminating in contracting MRSA and C-Diff on her regular visits to her hospital.
Ann lived on the 8th floor of a residential tower block in Bedford and whilst it may sound an unsuitable location it was next to the main bus station and so it was easy for her wide circle of friends to reach her. Ann was a regular on the Community Service Unit (otherwise affectionately known by the schoolchildren as ‘granny bashing’ for those children who did not join the CCF or do the Duke of Edinburgh awards). She made a great many friends through the local school initiative and was very influential with many of the children and I know she helped counsel a number of children away from a drugs problem, and made friends for life with those children, but also with their parents, a number of whom attended her funeral.
Those of you who remember Ann will recall that she was a very poor sleeper in Lourdes and that she, along with her fellow Bedford pilgrims Gina and Stephanie, would be found on the roof of the Accueil smoking and chatting away, all night if they could get away with it! All three of them proved to be popular company for the night staff teams who enjoyed having a puff during the night.
In the last few years in Lourdes, Ann became a prayer member of the Hospitalité and I know she was overjoyed to be asked and always attended the Hospitalité service when in Lourdes. I will miss calling her ‘ratbag’ (a nickname only the male ward members were allowed to use), her generous and caring nature, her great sense of humour and her ability to cope with all the pranks and jokes that the ward team used to play on her.
May she Rest in Peace. (2008)
Thursday, 8 November 2007
British Province of Carmelites to join the CA Pilgrimage
The Carmelite Order is one of the Church ’ s ancient religious communities, founded in the Holy Land some 800 years ago. Today the Carmelite Family is made up of friars, nuns, sisters, hermits and lay people, who form praying communities at the service of all God’s people.
Carmelites have a particular devotion to Mary the Mother of God, and the final apparition of Our Lady to Saint Bernadette took place on the feast of Our Lady of Mount Carmel.
Although individual Carmelites have taken part in the Catholic Association Pilgrimage over a number of years, the British Province of Carmelites will formally come under the umbrella of the Catholic Association for its Pilgrimage during the Jubilee Year 2008, marking the 150th anniversary of the apparitions at the Grotto.
The Pilgrimage Director for the Carmelites will be Johan Bergström-Allen, a lay member of the Order and former councillor of the Lourdes Hospitalité and the CA Hospitalité.
The Carmelites will come to Lourdes under the leadership of the Prior Provincial. The current Prior Provincial, Fr Tony Lester, said “Having been a brancardier with the Catholic Association Pilgrimage for the last few years, I’m delighted that my fellow Carmelites will be able to come to Our Lady’s sanctuary in Lourdes with such a fine group of pilgrims. Collaborating with the CA will mean that we can accompany more assisted pilgrims, and we shall work hard to recruit more volunteer helpers, particularly nurses and young people.”
Thursday, 1 November 2007
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Emily McEwen and James Baker
Paul Dowson and Anne O’Reilly
Friday, 1 June 2007
Walsingham Retreat - 2007

Fr Tony’s quotation from St Hildergard will stay with us for a long time: “Listen to your desire for life it is the word of the Holy Spirit”: this lead to some interesting discussions all weekend.
Wednesday, 9 May 2007
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Monday, 30 April 2007
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Sarah Sparrow, who gave birth to Francis, born on 6th March, weighing 9lb 11oz.
Helen Dinneen (neé Brumby), who gave birth to Conor, born on 27th March, weighing 9lb 12 oz.
James & Rachel Brotherton who have a new son, Joseph Thomas, born on 22nd April; a brother for Harry.
Saturday, 30 December 2006
Philomena Mulroy
Read Philomena's Obituary.
Saturday, 15 April 2006
The Right Reverend Charles Henderson

Bishop Charles Henderson will be remembered as a dedicated and tireless pastor and also as someone who led the way in putting into practice the Second Vatican Council's documents on Christian unity and inter-faith dialogue.
He was born in Waterford, Ireland, on 14 April 1924. The third of five children and the only boy, he grew up in the Ballybricken district of the city. At the age of five he went to Mount Sion School, run by the Christian Brothers. He entered St John's Seminary in 1941 and was ordained in Holy Trinity Cathedral, Waterford, by Bishop Daniel Cohalan on 6 June 1948.
His first appointment was as a curate at St Stephen's, Welling. In 1955 he moved to English Martyrs, Streatham. He become chancellor of the diocese in 1958. When the new Diocese of Arundel and Brighton was created out of Southwark in 1965, Monsignor Charles was appointed vicar general of the it for a short time. He was made a papal chamberlain in 1960 and a prelate to the papal household in 1965.
In 1968 he became episcopal vicar for religious and, the following year, was appointed parish priest of Our Lady Help of Christians, Blackheath. On 8 December 1972 at St George's Cathedral, Southwark, Archbishop Cyril Cowderoy ordained him as auxiliary bishop in Southwark and titular Bishop of Tricala. After the death of Archbishop Cowderoy in October 1976, he was put in charge of the diocese until the installation of Archbishop Michael Bowen in April 1977. Following the episcopal ordinations in 1980 of Bishop Howard Tripp and Bishop John Jukes, he was given responsibility for the south-east London. In 1976 Bishop Charles was appointed to the Ecumenical Commission for England and Wales.
For any progress to be made in Christians of different traditions drawing closer together, Bishop Charles believed that friendship had first to be built. Sometimes at the Commission meetings he would read aloud some of the poetry he had written. Afterwards, everyone would file into the dining room, where cold meats, salad, cheese and fruit would be laid out on the table. He was a member of the English Anglican/RC Committee from 1982-92 and a member of the Methodist/RC Committee from 1983-92. Between 1982-86 he served as a Catholic consultor and observer at the British Council of Churches. In 1998, he remarked: "We have achieved in my lifetime as a bishop the undoing of the damage of the Reformation."
When Bishop Charles established the Bishops' Conference Committee for Other Faiths in 1984, most Catholics knew little about the origins, history and beliefs of other world religions. He made up for his own lack of knowledge by showing an openness to all that was good in these faiths and eagerness to listen and learn. To increase understanding and to encourage dialogue, the Committee began to produce a series of booklets, Getting to Know People of Other Faiths and Family Life. In 1986, Bishop Charles took part in the first London Inter-faith Pilgrimage, which ended at the peace pagoda in Battersea Park.
Pope John Paul II recognised his expertise and knowledge in inter-faith dialogue by appointing him to the Pontifical Council for Inter-Religious Dialogue in 1990. As well as this, he was also chairman of the Bishops' Committee for Catholic-Jewish Relations from 1992-2001, vice-chairman of the Council for Christians and Jews for many years, and a member of the Churches Commission for Inter Faith Relations from 1994-2002. His outstanding work over seventeen years in developing understanding and good relations between the Jewish and Catholic communities earned him, in 2001, the Interfaith Gold Medallion from the Sternberg Charitable Foundation.
On January 26 2001, Pope John Paul II accepted his resignation. But it was only a resignation on paper. His diary remained full. Much of his time was spent travelling around south-east London celebrating confirmation.
His ecumenical and inter-faith work made a huge contribution to the life of the Church. But, of course, his primary responsibility was to the people and priests of the archdiocese. Visiting schools was one of his priorities, and he held regular meetings for head teachers to discuss various issues. He was also chair of the finance advisory committee of the National Catholic Fund from 1988-2000. One time when someone told him about a priest experiencing difficulties in his life, he replied: "Pray for him and be kind to him. Some of these men are very brittle." As a young priest, he had taken the pledge and remained faithful to the Pioneer Total Abstinence Association. He supported movements, such as Focolare, the Neocatechumenate, and Charismatic Renewal, believing that they should be integrated into the archdiocese.
In September 2005 he took part in one of the largest events in the archdiocese for many years when an estimated 7,000 Catholics attended a Mass at Aylesford Priory to mark the Year of the Eucharist.Bishop Charles never failed to return to Ireland twice every year. In 1973 he was made a Freeman of the City of Waterford. That same year, he was made a Knight Commander with Star of the Equestrian Order of the Holy Sepulchre of Jerusalem. He also travelled to Thailand several times to visit the Pattaya Orphanage Trust, of which he was patron.His patience and ability to listen enabled him to help resolve differences between individuals or in organisations or parishes. He never forgot to send a thank you note after an event. In his office in Blackheath, all the urgent items would be laid out across the floor. He paid attention to detail and liked to see things done properly. Each day, was built around Mass, the Divine Office and the rosary.
In January, Bishop Charles was diagnosed with cancer and eventually transferred to St Thomas' Hospital. Despite his worsening condition, a friend drove him the short distance to St George's Cathedral on February 14 to attend the episcopal ordination of Bishop Patrick Lynch and Bishop Paul Hendricks. The hospital had brought forward his radiotherapy treatment to enable him to be present.
Wednesday, 15 February 2006
Hilda Matthews
Sadly, last week, Hilda Matthews passed away peacefully. Hilda, who first visited Lourdes with the Catholic Association in 1996, will be remembered by many as a bright member of the Accueil.
I first came to Lourdes in 1997 and my first job as a brancardier was to be an Accueil roller. I was a very nervous branc when I arrived for duty, and I found myself looking for someone to push, as everyone seemed to have already left! Suddenly, from behind, a lady tapped me on the shoulder with her stick, and asked whether I was free to take her to mass. It was Hilda. Now I was petrified, because I was about to do my first rolling! However, all of this fear disappeared immediately, when Hilda simply said something along the lines of: don't worry everything will be fine. And, everything was - until the return!
Hilda needed to get a number of presents for her many grandchildren and asked me to take her shopping, which I did. Unfortunately, on our return from town, I inadvertently took the wrong turning (to this day I still don't know where!), and ended up on some road with a few cars coming past quite fast. In sudden panic to move Hilda away, I swiftly turned the voiture left into the pavement, and thus the drain!! A little crash, and Hilda was shaken about a bit, but safe! She insisted we went for a cuppa, so I could calm down and made me laugh the whole time!! For the rest of the week Hilda insisted on me taking her to every event, and over the next nine years we became firm friends. I have mentioned our first meeting, because it always reminds me of how wonderfully kind Hilda was to all who knew and visited her. I have also mentioned it, because she liked to tell the same story (with some expansion!), to all who visited her and claimed "it was only last year". She always made me smile. In particular, Hilda decided that only two careers befitted her young male helpers, that of priest or doctor. Thus, each year she would joke with me and others that she was waiting for us to make our choice and wanted to know why we hadn't done so yet?! Hilda was always full of good advice, and in 2005, advised me that I had put on too much weight and from now on should pull two voitures a day to get myself sorted! Thanks Hilda!
Hilda was an absolutely remarkable and wonderful person, who in her lifetime adopted 10s of children, and brought up 8 of her own. She "adopted" a few brancs and handmaids too! She was a very prayerful lady, and prayed every day to Padre Pio and Our Lady of Lourdes. She particularly prayed for those who had lost their faith and for their return to Jesus. In light of all of this, she became a Prayer Member of the Hospitalité in 2004.
Many of us will have our own story about Hilda, because she lit up any room she was in. Thank you Hilda for being my friend, and a friend to everyone who visited and cared for you in Lourdes - you will be sorely missed by all of us.
May she Rest in Peace.
Monday, 31 October 2005
Michael and Caroline Fauvelle
Caroline died in September 2004 after a short illness; Michael died in October 2005 following a series of strokes. Both are buried in their village church in Wherwell, Hampshire, where they had lived all their married life.
Read their Obituary by Rupert Bell.
Monday, 29 August 2005
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The Bishop, our Patron, referred to her impressive service in and concerning Lourdes: 50 years a handmaid with the CA, 20 of which as Deputy Chief Handmaid; a spell on the Executive Committee and then a Trustee of the CA; about the same time with Leeds Pilgrimage as with us, including 30 years as their Chief Handmaid; a devoted member of the St Frai branch of the Hospitalité NDL (for over 40 years) and a councillor there for 10 years.
A story of consistent service to the sick. Well done, Helen.
Helen Carroll wrote:
I would like to say a very big “Thank You” for all the kind letters, cards, phone calls, I received following my presentation of the Benemerenti in Lourdes. These are truly appreciated and I keep everyone in my prayers.
Wednesday, 1 June 2005
Tuesday, 26 April 2005
Sunday, 26 December 2004
Mary Lester: 1916-2004

Friends and family agreed that her first pilgrimage to Our Lady's Grotto in Lourdes was a time of grace and strengthening for her, since she came back to Lancashire with her leg ulcers - from which she had suffered for many years - greatly improved.
Her second pilgrimage to Lourdes with the C.A., last year, saw the beginning of her final illness, and it therefore seems appropriate that she should have died on 8th December 2004, the 150th anniversary of the Feast of the Immaculate Conception. In the Accueil, and in the weeks she spent in various hospitals, she was greatly supported by members of the Catholic Association, the Stonyhurst pilgrimage, and her family, especially Maureen and Mary's son Fr. Tony, who had joined the pilgrimage for the first time last year.
Fr. Tony celebrated her funeral in St. Peter and St. Paul Catholic Church in Mawdesley, near Chorley, on Wednesday 15th December. Tony was joined by a large number of his fellow Carmelite friars, including the Prior General who had flown over from Rome to pay his respects.
May she rest in peace.